Finding Our Calling

"Your calling connects the gifts you have, passion of your heart and the world's need."

- Tenth Sermon, October 12/08

Are you a Peasant?

"We all must remember, after all, that one of our goals in the search for romance is to find someone who needs us. Imagine how you would feel if your lover one day told you,

"I love you, but I don't need you. I admire you, but I can live without you."

The only way to find love is to embrace that sense of mutual need. If you truly want to fall in love — to build an open, emotionally fulfilling relationship with another — you must let go of the posture of independence. No one can find love by pretending to be entirely satisfied with the single life. You can convey that you're happy; there's nothing wrong with that. Just don't pretend you're not looking.⁷"

- Boteach, Shmuley.
Dating Secrets of the Ten Commandments (New York: Doubleday, 2000), 34.

*Taken from article: "Looking for Love like a Peasant"

You are confident, no?

很多人都說自信是成功的關鍵，我同時也相信，有自信的女人最美麗，有自信的男人最有魅力。
妳認為自己有自信嗎？問問自己是否會有下列類似的負面思考呢？

「我不善於與人社交。」
「每次只要我對某事太興奮，那件事情就會被我搞砸。」
「我希望我沒讓誰不高興。」

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「這完全超出我的能力範圍。」
「他們知道我想要，所以會自動給我。」
「該來的就會來，不必強求。」

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